Tag: Dating
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Gaps – The Stories We Use to Fill Them
Stories – oh how I love them! Especially when they catch my heart, cause me to invest, get my heart pounding with intrigue….and compel me to look differently at the world. Stories are the reason I’m a reader….a writer….and even work in the travel industry. Stories sell…..and I find myself buying whatever the stories in…
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Strategery – When You Can’t Help but Star Align
Growing up, we seemed to always have some sort of game going: Crazy Eights, Gin Rummy, Battleship, Risk, Stratego, Chess…. it was our family’s primary way of connection… So of course, I learned the art of strategy…of concurrently looking at Plan B, Plan C, Plan D – they make this move, and I make that…
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Sand Dunes
It’s getting within striking distance of a year since my divorce was final. How can that be? I blinked and 12 months went by. I look at some of the lessons I’ve learned about myself, and I’m proud of what I accomplished—proud of my courage to examine those places inside me which rarely see light of day….places of…
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Theoden’s Sight
But I’ve done it–I’ve traded something temporary—something to just fill my desire For.A.Moment—traded that little 5-15 minute experience for something of great magnitude. What has a bigger magnitude than my own goals for myself–than the promises I made to myself??
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Let’s Talk about Sex, Baby
Sex….it’s the elephant in the room when you are a single woman. You can talk about it ad nauseam in some circles and not at all in other circles. Many times our conversations about sex are transactional: they want it too much, they don’t want it enough, techniques, quality, quantity…but we rarely talk about the…
The Divorced Diva's Guide to Survival 